I’ve been Interviewed at Esme Salon – My Blogging Journey

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Esme interviewed me about my blogging journey!  You can read it by clicking on the link here!

My blogging journey started in early September, 2018.  After a lot of research, reading blogs, reading technical stuff about WordPress, joining Facebook Blogging groups etc., I started my journey.

The beginning

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I didn’t really have much idea what I was going to write about, but I decided that since I was old (life experience gives us many stories), living in a country that wasn’t my native one, married to someone of a different nationality than me, and had a lot of opportunity to travel (living close to European countries), I knew that I would find heaps of inspiration all around me.

Then I had to find a name for the blog.  That took some time, and I had a list of 5 or 6 that I was considering.  However, I was unsure exactly what the blog would be about, so I didn’t want a name that would be too restrictive (like, for example, “An Australian in Russia” – what would happen when I left Russia?!).  So, I chose a fact about me that would allow me to write about anything I wanted, but still be representative of me.  A fact that, while it’s not completely unique to me, it’s quite rare to find someone else who experienced the same start in life.

Then I got started and wrote some posts and started sharing them on Facebook.  It was a very slow start (well, it’s still slow, to tell you the truth!), but I really enjoyed what I was doing – writing.

What happened next

I found that one of the biggest benefits of writing for my blog is being able to ‘speak’ my native, natural language.  As I live in Moscow, Russia, and teach English to Russians, I’m always speaking in a rather ‘unnatural’ way, so that they understand me (it depends on their level, but even for advanced students of English we have to pay attention to what language we use when we speak).

Plus, outside of work, I speak English with my French husband, which means I’m not speaking naturally then either.  His English is good now, but he’s not a native speaker, so there’s some misunderstandings sometimes.

Imagine not being able to use your natural expressions, colloquialisms, idioms, slang!  That’s what it’s like when you speak with non-native English speakers every day and every night of your life (well, for 12 years, anyway!).

It was actually starting to affect me negatively and causing some depression (it was only mild depression, but I did shed some tears over this problem).  But writing for my blog, in my natural style, gave me such great pleasure.  I was using my language again!  I had my voice back!

After a while I started to connect with other bloggers.  I not only needed to spread my blog far and wide, I needed to communicate with people like me – people who wrote stories online for everybody to read.  In my own language!

The blogging community

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As an asocial person, it was hard at first.  Hard to reach out to them, to communicate, to share myself with others.  So I started out slowly and tentatively, and soon found a wonderful community out there of like-minded people doing the same thing as me (or, was I doing the same thing as them?).

They all support each other in such a kind and generous way.  The support I’ve received to date is humbling.  It also restores my faith in humanity (because what we see in online isn’t always so friendly and nice – there’s a lot of animosity out there).  It felt really good to be part of a community again (after some years of hiding myself away).

And, that’s where I find myself today.  A part of a huge community of people (mostly women, but some men too), who read each other’s work, comment on their posts, interact with kindness and thoughtfulness.  People from all around the world, and yes, some of them aren’t native English speakers.  But we share a common goal, to have our words read by others.

The interview

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Which brings me again to the exciting news that Esme, from Esme Salon, has published an interview with me on her blog.  In it I speak about blogging, of course, but I also share some other things about me and my life.

So, I hope you’ll pop over there and read it.  You can also comment over there, too, I’ll read and reply to any comments you leave there.

I hope to continue this blogging journey, as it’s one of the most enjoyable ones I’ve started.  And I hope that you’ll continue to join me on this journey as well.  I’m writing for you, so please stay with me and let me know what you’d like me to write about in future blog posts!

~ Cheryl

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Author: Cheryl

I'm an Australian woman who is now living in a village in rural Bulgaria. I lived for 12 years in Moscow, Russian Federation, working as an English language teacher. My current loves are my husband and my vegetable garden.

15 thoughts on “I’ve been Interviewed at Esme Salon – My Blogging Journey”

  1. I really enjoyed your post on Esme’s blog and reading your summary here too Cheryl! It’s been great to meet you in the blogging community and I look forward to reading more! #mlstl

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    1. Hi Debbie, thanks for your kind words. 🙂 It’s really fun to be here with you all! And doing the interview was a wonderful experience. Choosing and answering the questions was a good opportunity for self-reflection and gave me the chance to really think about what I’m doing here! Glad you’re enjoying my blog, thank you! 🙂

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  2. It is nice to get to know a bit more about you. I love your blog title. Living in Russia must be fascinating! I will pop over and read the interview as well. MLSTL

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    1. Hi Michele! Nice to see you here. 🙂 Thanks for the compliment, I like my blog title too! I love living in Russia, it’s so interesting. I’m hoping to write a lot more about it, there’s so much to tell! Thanks again for visiting. 🙂

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    1. Hi Sue, thanks for your comments. Everyone has a story, and I think what Esme’s doing is great for all of us! Even if we think that we’re ‘uninteresting’, it’s not true. I’m so happy to have found everybody! Have a great end of the week and a relaxing weekend. 🙂

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  3. I loved this post Cheryl, and also what you said about blogging giving you your voice back. It sounds like we started blogging around the same time, though I’m also still learning. I really enjoyed your post and look forward to reading your interview. Congratulations!

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    1. Hi Christina, thank you for your kind words. I’m glad you liked the post. It’s really true about getting my voice back, and it feels really good! Don’t worry, I’m still learning about blogging too, but it’s so interesting, isn’t it? I love your travel posts, it gives me inspiration and a huge desire to go where you’ve already been! Enjoy the rest of your weekend and thanks for your support. 🙂

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  4. Hi Cheryl! I do hear you about your frustration about the language! I am a native Italian and the first years in the US were very tough on me because of my incapability of explain myself as I would have liked! Now I am more confident in my second language, and blogging helped me in a similar way as it did for you! And yes, meeting such amazing bloggers around is absolutely an experience that leaves such an amazing feeling in our lives! I am very pleased to me you! #EsmeSalon

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    1. Hi Sylvia, thank you, it’s nice to meet someone who’s been through what I’m going through! I’m glad to hear that blogging helped you too, I don’t know when you started blogging, but I wish I’d started a lot earlier than I did! So pleased that you’ve commented and thanks for visiting Born in a Car! 🙂

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    2. I’ve started About five years ago, but not very seriously and without knowing what I was doing! Only recently I’ve found out what it means being part of a bloggers community, and so only lately I’ve started this fun and enriching experience!

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      1. Wow, 5 years! I think finding the community was the point where I started to really enjoy it. It’s ok for family and friends to read what you’re writing, but it’s so nice to find people outside your immediate circle to share your work with. Let’s hope it lasts for a long time and that we keep enjoying it! Have a great week! 🙂

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  5. Hi Cheryl – I left a comment on Esme’s blog. What a fun interview and it was lovely to learn more about you and how your blogging journey started. #seniorsalon

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    1. Hello Natalie, thank you for reading my interview over at Esme’s. It really was fun to do it, gave me plenty of opportunity for self-reflection! Thanks for your kind words. Have a great week! 🙂

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